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365 Connecting Questions for Engaged Couples

Our book is available for purchase! Asking each other these open-ended questions before you say I Do will help prepare you for a healthy and happy marriage.

This Book Includes

  • A question a day to ask your fiancé
  • Our ‘Feelings Words List’ to help you communicate more clearly
  • A list of phrases that express empathy
  • Tips to make the most of the book
  • Questions for those who have been married before
  • Blank pages to take notes

Topics

  • Sex & Intimacy
  • Conflict & Repair
  • Friendship
  • Self-awareness
  • Career & Money
  • Communication
  • Childhood & Family
  • Boundaries
    … and some questions are just for fun!

How it Works

Ask Questions by Date

For each day of the year, there is one Connecting Questions to ask your fiancé. Take turns asking the question listed! Don’t worry: You don’t need to start on January 1 – any day is a great day to start.

Cover a Specific Topic

If there is a specific area you want to work on in your relationship, pick a question by topic using the index in the back. Topics include: sex & intimacy, conflict, friendship, repairing, money, communication, boundaries, holidays & more!

Use the Bonus Material

This book includes a question a day to ask your fiancé as well as helpful bonus material including our Feelings Words List to help you communicate more clearly and questions for those who have been married before.

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