COMMUNICATION… IT’s WHAT CONNECTS US AND THERE ARE ALWAYS TWO SIDES: THE SPEAKER AND THE LISTENER. 

The Speaker

The truth is, many of us are looking for the approval of those closest to us on some level or another. And this is often disguised by the desire to have our partner understand what we are talking about. Anything important to us should be important to them, right? I always thought I just wanted Meygan to “get it.” But really I wanted her to be okay with me, accept me, validate me, love me and to listen to me. 

The Listener

One of the most valuable personal growth skills we can learn is listening with empathy. It’s a skill that not only serves others, but also one that stretches us to become more loving, patient, and connected people.

AS AN EMPATHIC LISTENER, YOU MUST BE WILLING TO:

HERE ARE SOME CONNECTING QUESTIONS TO GET YOU TALKING AND LISTENING TO ONE ANOTHER. 

If you and your fiancé struggle with listening, be sure to check out our online premarital course Happily Ever After and watch the video called Communication!

We give five tips on how to be effective listeners and communicators.