Sometimes the only thing that can prepare you for marriage is marriage.

But in order to minimize the crippling effects of waking up one day and realizing that your partner really isn’t perfect, it’s important to ask great questions.

It’s the number one piece of advice we give to the thousands of couples we’ve worked with to prepare them for marriage and it comes down to one word – awareness.

Yes, engagement is a really fun stage of the relationship, but let’s be honest, most couples are looking at the glass half full when they should be talking about who is going to clean the glass after dinner every single night.

Our goal is to get couples talking, learning, and exploring each other on a deeper level. Awareness of your past, your upbringing, your personality strengths and weaknesses, and how you handle conflict.

Here are some questions to get you started:


Check out our book 365 Connecting Questions for Engaged Couples!




We have a passion for equipping dating, engaged, and newlywed couples with the resources they need to succeed in marriage. Your Happily Ever After starts here.