No one wants to marry the wrong person, yet somehow so many people do.

The key to your dating and engaged months & years is to ask each other some tough questions. The way your partner answers and responds will be very telling and eye-opening. Be sure to ask these questions, even if it’s uncomfortable, because you need to be prepared. Answers like, “I don’t know” or “Haven’t really thought about it” are ones to go back to sooner than later and get answers.

Bonus Tip

If your partner’s answer made you feel triggered, uncomfortable or unsettled, don’t ignore it. Lean in and first process why the answer they gave made you feel that way. Then bring it back up at a later time and ask more questions to bring clarity.


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